Have you ever spent an entire day organizing a closet, pantry, playroom, or bedroom, only to look at it a few weeks—or even a few days—later and wonder what happened?

You organized everything. You put things into bins. You straightened the shelves. Maybe you even bought some beautiful new organizing products.

So why didn’t it last?

As a professional organizer, I hear this all the time. And usually, it’s not because someone is incapable of being organized. More often, the home organizing system itself was set up to fail.

At POSH Organizing, we believe a successful organizing system needs to do three things: it needs to manage a reasonable amount of stuff, work with the way you actually live, and be easy to access and maintain.

Sounds simple, right? But these are three of the biggest reasons we see organizing systems fall apart.

Reason #1: You’re Trying to Organize Clutter

One of the things I tell my clients all the time is:

“We don’t organize clutter.”

It can be tempting to think that getting organized starts with buying bins, baskets, drawer dividers, or a new shelving system. But that’s not where we start at POSH Organizing.

Before we organize anything, we edit.

Decluttering is the foundation of an organized home. We take everything out, group like items together, and help our clients see what they actually own.

That’s often when the surprises begin.

Five black sweaters. Seven spatulas. Three unopened bottles of the same shampoo. Twenty coffee mugs when you regularly use six.

Once you can see everything together, it becomes much easier to decide what you truly use, need, and love.

Only then do we organize what’s left.

Otherwise, we’re simply finding prettier ways to store things you don’t need—and that’s not organization.

That’s organized clutter.

Once we’ve edited the space, we can create an organizing system around the things our client has intentionally chosen to keep. And because there is less to manage, that system is much easier to maintain.

Why Your Organizing System Keeps Falling Apart

So often, I get a call from someone who tells me, “I spent the entire day organizing, and the next day it looked exactly the same.”

One of the first questions I ask is:

“Did you edit anything out?”

More often than not, the answer is no.

And that is usually a big part of the problem.

The more we own, the more we have to manage. More clothing means more laundry. More dishes mean more dishes that can pile up in the sink. More toys mean more toys to put away. More papers mean more papers to sort through.

Every item we bring into our home eventually requires something from us. It needs to be washed, cleaned, maintained, stored, organized, repaired, or eventually disposed of.

When we have too much, even a good organizing system can quickly become overwhelmed.

The 90 Pairs of Underwear

Years ago, I worked with a couple who both had ADHD, and laundry had become a major source of frustration in their home. Instead of a hamper or two waiting to be washed, laundry had accumulated into what felt like mountains. They couldn’t figure out why they could never seem to get on top of it.

As we talked through their routine, one of them casually mentioned that he owned more than 90 pairs of underwear.

And suddenly, part of the problem became very clear.

He never really needed to do laundry. There was always something clean to wear. Because laundry was a repetitive chore that was easy to put off, having such a large supply allowed it to be postponed again and again.

By the time laundry became unavoidable, the amount waiting to be washed was completely overwhelming.

The solution wasn’t a more elaborate laundry system.

The solution was less underwear.

By significantly reducing the amount of clothing he owned, laundry naturally needed to happen more frequently. Instead of waiting until there were mountains of clothing to wash, there was now a practical reason to stay on top of it.

This is a great example of something we see frequently when organizing for clients with ADHD and chronic disorganization: sometimes the problem isn’t that you need a better system.

The problem is that the system is being asked to manage too much stuff.

Before buying another basket, bin, shelf, or organizing product, ask yourself:

Do I need a better way to organize this—or do I simply have too much to organize?

Reason #2: Your Organizing System Doesn’t Match the Way You Live

This is a big one—and sometimes it’s an even bigger challenge when we’re organizing for a family.

Not everyone in a household thinks the same way, processes information the same way, or puts things away the same way. The trick is finding a solution that works well enough for everyone who needs to use it.

That’s why we ask our clients a lot of questions before creating a system.

How do you naturally group your belongings? What are you willing to do to maintain the space? Do you like things hidden away, or do you need to see them? How much time are you realistically going to spend putting things away?

Clothing is a perfect example.

Do Your T-Shirts Really Need to Be File Folded?

Most people are familiar with Marie Kondo’s method of file folding T-shirts—folding them so they stand upright in a drawer rather than stacking them on top of one another. It can be a wonderful system. You can see each shirt, and if there’s a graphic or logo on the front, it’s much easier to identify what you’re looking for.

But here’s the important part:

If my client isn’t going to fold T-shirts that way, I don’t want to create that system for them.

Talk about adding stress and creating a system that’s ready to fail on day one!

Instead, we ask questions.

Do you separate T-shirts into workout shirts, graphic tees, and dressier shirts? Do you want all of them together? Do you care if they’re folded a certain way?

Some people are incredibly specific—even their socks have categories. Other people are perfectly happy throwing every pair of socks into one drawer.

Neither person is wrong.

I once worked with a client who kept three bins in her bathroom: one for T-shirts, one for bras, and one for underwear. The T-shirts weren’t folded.

She didn’t care.

And neither did we.

She had created a simple system that worked for her. Our job wasn’t to replace it with something prettier or more conventional.

Our job was to support what was already working and build from there.

That’s what I mean when I say:

We organize for the client’s life—not our own.

Sometimes You Have to Let Go of the “Should”

Another client had young children, and laundry was a constant thorn in her side. She could get the clothes washed and dried, but she could never seem to find the time or energy to fold everything and put it neatly into drawers.

She felt like she was constantly behind.

So I asked her a very simple question:

“Do you really need to?”

Did the baby’s clothes truly need to be folded and placed into drawers right now? Or was that simply what she felt she should be doing?

The answer was no.

She had enough on her plate. Folding tiny clothes and putting them into drawers wasn’t the priority.

We told her to give herself permission to simplify the system. She brought the basket of clean laundry into the baby’s room and dressed the baby directly from the basket. Maybe the clothes were a little wrinkled. Maybe they weren’t beautifully folded in a drawer.

But they were clean, they were accessible, and the system worked.

Sometimes getting organized means letting go of our idea of what an organized home is supposed to look like.

A beautifully labeled, color-coordinated system that you can’t maintain isn’t a successful organizing system.

A basket of clean baby clothes that makes an overwhelmed parent’s life easier just might be.

The best organizing system isn’t necessarily the prettiest one. It’s the one you’ll actually use.

Reason #3: Your Organizing System Isn’t Easy to Access

An organizing system has to be easy to use and easy to maintain. The more barriers we put between ourselves and where something belongs, the more likely we are to stop using the system.

One of the biggest culprits?

Lids.

It may look beautiful to have clear acrylic containers with lids neatly stacked on top of one another, but chances are it’s only going to stay that beautiful for a short time.

There’s an old saying that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. When it comes to organizing, I believe the same principle applies.

Every lid you have to remove and every bin you have to unstack creates another step between you and putting something away.

Those extra steps turn that straight line into a very curvy road.

Anyone who has worked with me knows that I don’t like stacking things if I can avoid it. I don’t even love stacking pots and pans.

Why?

Because now I have to move three things to get to the one thing I actually want.

And if getting something out is inconvenient, imagine how likely you are to put it back when you’re finished.

Make Putting It Away as Easy as Taking It Out

Think about an arts and crafts closet for children. Imagine four clear bins stacked on top of one another. The crayons belong in the bottom bin.

Your child finishes coloring, walks over to the closet, removes three bins, takes the lid off the fourth, puts away the crayons, replaces the lid, and carefully restacks all four containers.

Do we really think that’s going to happen?

Probably not.

More likely, those crayons are going to end up on a shelf, on the floor, or wherever it’s easiest to leave them.

That’s not necessarily because the child is messy.

We’ve created a system with too many barriers.

The same thing happens with adults. When putting something away requires several steps, we’re much more likely to tell ourselves, I’ll put that away later.

And we all know how quickly those “laters” can turn into clutter.

Remove the Barriers

I love clear acrylic bins.

They are my happy place.

They can create incredible organization where chaos once lived. They allow you to group like items together, easily see what you have, and give everything a designated home.

But whenever possible:

No lids and no stacking.

Open bin. Grab what you need. Put it back.

That’s the straight line.

Before deciding where something should live, think about how often you use it and how easy it will be to both retrieve it and put it away. Frequently used items should be the easiest to access. Things used less often can live in less convenient spaces.

Because a successful organizing system shouldn’t make you work harder to stay organized.

The fewer steps it takes to put something away, the more likely it is that you’ll actually do it.

The POSH Perspective: Create Organizing Systems That Work for Your Life

Getting organized isn’t about creating a home that looks perfect.

It’s about creating a home that works.

As professional home organizers serving clients throughout Connecticut, we don’t walk into someone’s home with a predetermined idea of what their organizing system should look like. First, we need to understand how that person actually lives.

What do they use? Where do they use it? How do they naturally categorize things? What are they realistically willing to do to maintain the system?

And sometimes the answer isn’t another organizing product at all.

Sometimes we need to own less.

Sometimes we need to stop doing something simply because we think we should.

And sometimes we just need to take the lid off the bin.

That’s why at POSH Organizing, we organize for the client’s life—not our own.

Your home doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s. Your home organizing systems simply need to make your life easier.

So if you’ve organized the same space over and over again and it never seems to stay that way, don’t assume you’re the problem.

Take another look at the system.

Have you edited enough? Does the system fit the way you actually live? And have you made it as easy as possible to maintain?

Those three questions may be the difference between organizing a space for a day—and creating an organizing system that actually lasts.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by clutter or struggling to create organizing systems you can maintain, POSH Organizing provides professional home organizing and decluttering services throughout Connecticut. Contact POSH Organizing to schedule a consultation and let us create customized solutions based on the way you and your family actually live.

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